Come up with a crazy business idea. The daily prompt asks.
Why don’t we start a TV network that can take actual things you see like January 6th, 2021, and make you believe it was something other than it was. Ops, we already have that.
How about a security firm that protects every school in the country. I mean what parents wouldn’t want that now with all the school shootings.
How about starting a TV network that would tell the truth about things. Ops, we would never get a license now.
How about a company that could take all the gambling away from sports and return it to the people who play and love to watch it for the love of the game itself.
Maybe start a firm that takes up the tremendous amount of food waste in this country and feed the poor and homeless and sheltered animals.
On a large-scale water management for the country. We either have way too much water or not enough just about everywhere, every year. Oh, throw water safety in that loop also.
I hear this country is in need of a new electrical grid. Got to think big at times.
Now here is one I’d like to pull off again. Start a local community newspaper. I know, they all died off. But look at what you’re left with.
Create a device that captures all the ideas we lose before we get to the computer or to a piece of paper.
Maybe a company that helps people wake up and respect the earth we live in. Photo by Mike Hartley
I’m feeling my age today. Maybe, a bit older. Time to get some exercise before I stiffen up more. I’ve been pretty good at walking every day, but the weights haven’t been moving much. Feeling younger takes a bit of work regarding the body.
The mind has no problem thinking or acting young. Like tonight, I’ll stay up way past normal and probably work on several areas of photography.
Even though the mind thinks young, it’s not telling the body to do the active things it did in its youth. And there lies the issue. I’ve really got to turn that around this year. Besides walking and light weights, I have to add another aerobic activity.
It’s going to be tough because I spend a lot of time seated working on the computer and reading. I did hear my neighbor’s son outside with his basketball and hoop. Maybe I should get outside myself. I had it out a few weeks ago dribbling keep away from my granddaughter.
This makes 2 of us that need maintenance. Photo by Mike Hartley
I think I’ll work on some of my favorite nature shots. I guess I should order some more ink tomorrow because I’m going to be doing some larger prints. Now I just have to find room or people to give them to.
In between those coming out of the printer I’m setting up something to test my lighting and angles on some old cameras as subject matter. Have a good evening, all. Go Packers.
Random Thoughts of the Day
Don’t lose your perspective if you find yourself talking to yourself more than others.
I don’t know why I got away from doing Random Thoughts for a while. It’s not like I didn’t continue to have them.
I’m using change to help with my motivation.
I have a daily desk calendar again. I like that. I haven’t had one in a few years, so this is nice to keep me up with the day and date. No wonder the last few years have gone by so fast. I lost track of time.
The daily prompt asks – Describe and item you were incredibly attached to as a youth. What became of it?
I have two things that I was attached to as a youth. My Louisville Slugger baseball bat from little league days, and my first camera. I still have both of these. One is now a security device and the other sits with all the old antique cameras I have collected over the years from the family.
It still feels like it did in my hand’s many years ago. That bat is almost 6 decades old. Photo by Mike Hartley
When I was trying to discover what I wanted to be in my teens, I thought I wanted to be an artist and photographer. I spent my first and only year of college as an Applied Art and Design Major.
The term starving artist exists for a reason. And I was scared to move ahead because of that and the fact I saw more talent around me and wondered if I could compete over the long run. I was used to having money having worked a lot of my youth. But not in the art field.
I was worried about making a living. Having funds to go out, keeping my car running and fueled, keeping my own engine fueled. So, when offered a position as a cameraman in the engraving department in a publishing operation I jumped at it.
It was an easy out of my initial dream and I didn’t look back till a few years before retirement. I discovered I still had that desire. But this time the pressure is off. I can pursue those interests without the financial pressure of having to support a family.
I still do things on a shoestring budget. I ask for printer paper for birthdays and Xmas. I stretch life out of every computer and camera I use. I pick up a pad of drawing paper and paint when I can. I make old scraps of wood come alive.
At one time before I retired, I thought I might make a business out of my arts and photography. But I discovered I don’t do this for money. I do it because I like it. I’d rather give something I’ve created as a gift than earn a dollar from a stranger. Not that I won’t give a gift to a stranger.
I love the chance to create and that is what I take to the bank. Photo by Mike Hartley
What is my mission? – Asks the daily writing prompt.
Well, let’s see. I need to write to both of my children this morning and get the cover on the car before any rain starts. I’m thinking of someone very close to me undergoing some test so my mind will be there for some time.
I’d like to work on my photography skills today in shooting and editing. I’d like to get some thoughts between the ears to paper or computer. I’d like to finish the book I started today. I’ve got to call the garage for an appointment.
I’m going to pick up the paint brush and put a few miles on the treadmill. I’ve got a few more blog posts to make and then do a little sanding on the dolphin I’m working on for my granddaughter. I might work on planning a short trip and setting up my makeshift studio.
My mission is to smile. To make other people smile. To be a good father and grandfather, to love. To be a good friend, to be truthful and ethical. To have a good time this weekend and maybe watch some sports. To get the fireplace going and trim my beard.
To clear some wall space for a new photo project. Hang a few more hooks in the storage room ceiling for grandkids toys I’m tripping over. Work on some illustrations and order some Chinese food.
I’m probably forgetting a few things on my current mission. The mission is modified day by day because life changes minute to minute. Missions are important, but sometimes it’s also important to let life just come to you. Like if you hear a song you like, get up and dance if so moved.
And if my better half doesn’t like the idea of Chinese food today, I’ll suggest some Mission BBQ.
Mission BBQ Route 40 Ellicott City. Photo by Mike Hartley
I had some doors from the Eastern Shore of Maryland I don’t believe I’ve used here for Thursday Doors. It’s a mish mash of sights. I hope to get out this weekend for some fresh images.
As always, thanks to the creator of Thursday Doors and please follow the link to Dan’s site – No Facilities for far more talented posts.
This first shot was from doors at Secrets Distillery in Ocean City.
Clear instructions. Photo by Mike Hartley
I believe this home below was in St Michaels MD.
Easter will be here before you know it. Photo by Mike Hartley
And a building with several stages of doors in Easton MD.
I’ve heard that line “Live long and prosper” somewhere in my lifetime.
The daily writing prompt wants to know my thoughts on the concept of living a very long life.
I hope to live a very long life. In some ways I’ve already have. I’m thankful for each day and the healthy ones especially. I hope to grow old with my better half and watch my grandchildren grow into young adults.
I have a lot to do and accomplish myself. I’d like to live it as healthy as possible. The concept of living a long time in ill health worries me. Whether mentally or physically it would be a struggle. Of course that is asking for a lot.
I’m guessing the percentage of people who grow very old and healthy, and then just pass peacefully in their sleep is very low. I’ve seen some of the end-of-life struggles and it bothers me, but it’s kind of out of our control.
Staying sharp both mentally takes work just like keeping the body in shape physically. I haven’t done the best job here but it’s never too late to start. I think we all have started over several times with these goals.
The thought of a long life like living till my late 80s or early 90s makes me smile. I can see myself shuffling through the bleachers to watch a grandchild play a high school or college game and attend their graduations. I can feel myself holding my better half’s hand on the deck as we catch some sun. Well, I’ll catch rays, she will be under the umbrella.
I can see myself in what will be then a very classic Miata that I have sitting in the driveway now cruising down some back roads and remembering what was there decades ago. I hope I still have a camera in my hands and that the hands can still tickle the keyboard with speed and agility.
Each doctor’s appointment now scares the hell out of me. Ever since some medical challenges in the previous two decades I fear that I might not be able to see some of those plans. Just as any senior fears when they get to this age.
A while back I learned and then relearned the importance of living in the present. So, it’s going to be a great day today and productive day.
Wishing all of us many more sunrises. Photo by Mike Hartley
I get cravings for food often. Like daily because I love to eat and drink. My mind wandered to a warm summer day thinking about a large pizza from Tony’s on the boardwalk in Ocean City. Some Shrimp Jammers and a cold drink on the deck part above the restaurant below.
Unfortunately, Tony’s is no more. Well yeah, I heard the new owner/operators have a small carry-out, but rumor is it’s nothing like the old Tony’s pizza. We will miss that spot. The family would always make a stop there every vacation. And I’d get a slice or two if I was down on a day trip to the beach by myself.
Anyway, I got to thinking what is my favorite Pizza in Howard County Maryland. And said to myself why not a post about the search. Notice I didn’t say the best pizza because that is too subjective and not everyone likes the same toppings. And that matters a lot in how pizza comes out and tastes.
I’ll describe what I like about each one. I’m trying to keep a positive mindset so hopefully there are many great things about each but I’m sure I can find something good to say about each. Even if it’s the box it came in.
Just kidding. It’s hard not to like pizza. There are some frozen ones that could test your love for pizza but most you get at a restaurant are going to be pretty good.
I like thin crust so that is the style I’ll be ordering. Sorry to those doing the deep dish as their specialty.
And what better way to begin, low and behold we have a Tony’s Pizzeria right here in Howard County. Not affiliated with the one in OC but special none the less. We went there for subs mostly because they have great cheesesteaks.
The Fat Tony Meat Combo Pizza appealed to me – Yeah that heart attack can’t get here quick enough. Anyway, I ordered a medium because my better half wasn’t joining me for lunch. Which also allowed all the meat toppings she wouldn’t normally go for. Sausage, ham, bacon and pepperoni.
This was a very good pie. Very generous on the toppings and they all had a nice flavor. Good crust, sauce and cheesy. Cooked perfectly. I’ll be back.
If I ordered the Fat Tony’s Meat Combo often, I’d be Fat Mike’s. Photo by Mike Hartley
This is actually the second post on pizza. Here is a link to my thoughts on Anthony’s Pizza in a post called Pizza in Howard County from December 25.
The decorations are down, and everything is bare again. That is the part of the season that I dislike. There is something about holiday decorating that raises my spirits. Now we are back to the grey winter months. Yes, there is a birthday this month that the cray paper and balloons will come out. And I might have a gathering for some old and good friends.
But those lights and the smell of a fresh tree and ornament’s hanging signals a time of family and smiles and peace to me. Here we are a few days into the new year, and they are gone again.
As I boxed up the last of the lights, I think how quickly this year came and went so in no time we’ll be pulling these boxes out again.
Till next year. Kenilworth Mall. Photo by Mike Hartley
What could you do differently? – Now that is one open question from the daily writing prompt.
I’m guessing all of us have a long list of things we could do differently. I just spent a few minutes and came up with a list. Now I’ve got to add these things to my many existing lists.
I could get more serious about exercising.
I could love more.
I could spend more time on the things I like doing.
I could sit with proper posture and get more sleep.
I could volunteer more.
I could modify my stock Miata.
I could organize this blog. Nah I like the mess.
I could get busy remodeling the basement.
I could try to adjust my attitude about winter and cold.
I could start following through on more of my ideas.
Audience for Sunrise in Ocean City. Photo by Mike Hartley
It’s a music day. My better half is out so there is no need for headphones. Just speakers belting out the tunes for me to feel. And I do feel music. The lyrics, the beat hit my soul. Even in the toughest times it can put a smile on my face.
So, my shoulders are bouncing and the swivel in the chair is getting some action, and I can still type fairly accurately. It won’t be long though till I have to get up and move with some energy.
A day of errands and chores ahead, but some fun will be had for sure. The streets are dry, so I think I’ll exercise the Miata for a few minutes. It’s so strange driving that car with the top up. I rarely take it out in the cold, but I miss driving it, so I do when the roads aren’t bad.
Now tomorrow is another story with the temp maybe hitting 55. That’s the magic number for folding that top back. Now the side windows will be up most of the way and maybe the seat warmer on, but with the sun it will be nice.
History
This day January 6th is a disgusting day in this country’s history. And what has been done since regarding that day’s activities is an injustice of justice. A warning and message we didn’t take and was changed into a different narrative to suit his followers. A hateful day that everyone condemned and then many changed their tune.
Why so many continue to bow to this false narrative and continuation of other lies is one of the many that continue to puzzle me.
Creativity Ebbs and Flows
Some days the words flow like a lazy stream. Relaxed, rolling and free. Effortless positive thoughts flow along with the images.
Other days words are dammed up. The mind in turmoil, the body tense, painful and rigid. I get more of these days. I work hard in overcoming them and not making them apparent. So far, I’m pretty good at disguising them. A word actor. An actor in life.
Some days I’m reluctant to pick up a brush or a camera. Others I can’t get enough of them.
Today feels like a good creative day.
Alone on an island wondering where the world is going. Photo by Mike Hartley
Random Thoughts of the Day
My sleep is getting more and more inconsistent. Guess it’s having a flashback.
There is a dance inside of me dying to get out today.
The live version of Simple Man from 1975 might be my favorite song of all time.
I believe in the Manual Gearbox Preservation Society.
If you had a freeway billboard, what would it say? – Now there is an interesting ask by the daily writing prompt.
Wow, that is a tough one because my mind raced through several emotions and messages. And I quickly realized I’d need a lot more billboards. Here are just a few that covered my first 5 minutes of thought on the topic. Wish I had the time for some artwork for each.
Respect each other – Love each other
Hold on, it can get worse.
If all decisions are made with children and grandchildren, in mind. The world would be a better place.
Democracy takes work. No more sitting around expecting others to do it for you.
Welcome to Maryland. Safe driving times are between 3:00am and 3:30am. Except holidays, full moons and weekends coming home from the beach.
We are at a very important point in history; the decisions we make now will affect generations to come.
I’d like to send the Seal Teams against Scammers.
Malignant Narcissism and Dementia = Great name for a carnival ride but not a President.
We could do better with instructions, from what I see. Photo by Mike Hartley
I won’t wait for winter to end to visit the Eastern Shore of Maryland again. One of these days I’m going to have to eat crabs out on the deck at the Crab Claw restaurant in that red building across the water here.
St Michaels along the Miles River. Photo by Mike Hartley
St Michaels and Easton have lots of good spots to eat and I love walking both towns. Speaking of walking I need to get on that treadmill today and make up for the slack effort put forth on Sunday.
But the ocean calls and I’m going to start a countdown till I’m sitting at the bar at The Wedge watching the boats go in and out the inlet while eating a crab flatbread and a cold beverage.
My better half and I stopped here and loved it. Great place to sit, eat, drink and enjoy the view of the inlet and Assateague Island. Photo by Mike Hartley
But today I’m also working on sorting out inputs to get control of. For instance, I can stay well informed while not getting overwhelmed with politics. So, I’m reading more and watching less TV.
Getting back to listening to more music as I work and exercise is a good feeling again. I got so away from my norms in December when under the weather. They feel that much more special as I resume them again. A reminder that health is everything.
I’ve got one appointment I’d like to avoid today but that wouldn’t be smart. So, I’ll knock that out and return to the office and easel and work hard this afternoon and evening on my passions.
The daily writing prompt asks – Do you spend more time thinking about the future or past? Why?
I guess it depends on the day and situation. Most of the time I’m thinking about the future. Holidays and certain anniversaries I’m thinking about the past and reflecting. Certain locations or events might trigger more past thoughts.
I like looking forward but I also have a lot of good memories so looking at the past is nice sometimes also.
Now I’d say I spend more time thinking ahead than behind. Trying to live more in the present.
Which Direction to choose today. Photo by Mike Hartley
Changing my approach to change. I’m trying to combat the forces of age and nature that resist change with advancing years.
Changing speeds in my motivation is a beginning that will help with everything else. I’m already feeling and seeing the difference in productivity and results.
Chrome and Color. Photo by Mike Hartley
I’m trying to make a big change in terms of letting some things go. Some old family items, at least a third of the stuff in my workroom, some materials I’ve been saving for who knows what project.
I’m trying to change the focus here to more of my original intent with a photography focus but here I am contributing more grey matter.
Some changes are in relationships. The ones that require me to be the giver most of the time, become less attractive.
Some are changes in interest. This one has been happening for a while now. Since my retirement I have had less in common with a lot of people because I’ve dropped what I was doing professionally almost entirely. My hobbies now don’t register with most I’ve known for a while, with a rare exception here and there.
Many changes are out of my control, but they could have big effects on me. Things like friends moving away or passing. Of course, I’ve been touched by people close to me passing as we all have. But most all my best and longest-term friends have always lived close by. That will be tough as those things change.
In some cases, I might be forced to accept change and that is probably the most difficult. I’ve been lucky enough to maintain my own home and property for many decades here. But those days are numbered. I still enjoy it and can do most of it, but the heavy stuff is taking a toll. And there are parts of this yard it’s very easy to fall on which I’ve done many times.
Well, it’s late and time to change into exercise man, watch a little of the Ravens game before returning to work here for a late-night post. Don’t worry, I’ll change it up so it won’t be a serious post.
The second wind has arrived, and I’ve got the sails up and running with it. Maybe it’s that full moon out there tonight. or the glow I have from the time with the family today. Whatever it is, I’m in a positive frame of mind and have some time to tinker with my crafts.
Sunset in Ocean City. Photo by Mike Hartley
Some more time on the treadmill for the body and mind. About to put the printer to work and finish the holiday family prints for the kids and my wall.
Also feeling inspired to sit at the easel for a bit and let the brush flow. I’m turning nocturnal again. Well, I might as well go with the flow.
We went to Kenilworth Mall to meet the family today and look at the train garden.
I love watching the kid’s reactions to trains and the villages created.
There were a few fathers who seemed to take a keen interest in the sights as well.
A way to see the circus in the middle of winter.
Nice work to the people who set this one up.
Oh, if you’re hungry may I recommend Italian Gardens Restaurant. Very good pizza, flatbreads and salads and wonderful service.
It’s so funny to watch the kids get lost in looking at the displays and then realize mom or dad isn’t next to them and the panic in their face till they see you. Well in this case seeing Papa made him happy.
A rather populated set of windowpanes. Reminds me of me. I love looking out of our windows at home. We aren’t at the top of the hill but near it, (elevation wise) so the view is nice for both sunrises and sunsets. Oh, there are lots of trees in the way, but this time of year it’s easy to see through them.
Window from St Michaels MD. Photo by Mike Hartley
When we moved here there was nothing but woods behind us. Now during the winter, you can see faint lines of 2 homes in the distance and one home in a court off to our right. But I’m not looking for that anyway. I love watching wildlife. And there is a nice variety in the area to view if you’re patient.
So many colorful winged friends. And others so well camouflaged you have to have experience in spotting them. Sometimes I’ll look out the window and see a deer sleeping, then another and another and yet another. And I’m probably not seeing 2-3 more.
Most of the time I’m looking out and up. That is till you see a snake and then you gaze down a lot more for a few weeks. That isn’t a concern this time of year though.
There are homes with better views. But I’m very good with mine.
The daily writing prompt asks – What colleges have you attended.
I’ve attended the School of Hard Knocks. Graduated with honors in Life. Nah, really, I only attended one year of college at Catonsville Community College. I think it’s been renamed the Community College of Baltimore.
I started as an Applied Art and Design major but dropped out for work after the first year. Really pretty much after the first semester because in the second semester I started working more than full time at the same time. I concentrated on my art and photography classes and dropped English Lit class.
Hard ladder to success. Photo by Mike Hartley
Like high school I got intimidated and wasn’t confident in my abilities and work. So, I had to learn that over my career and grow up in a few ways. In making a climb from the bottom you sometimes learn some important lessons you don’t get in school or college.
I learned a lot about perspective, persistence and people along the journey. I enjoyed learning the art of learning after leaving school.
We opened the blog shop early today (couldn’t sleep) but then we closed for a morning doctor’s appointment and a visit to long time neighbors who are moving away next week.
To the left of this monitor is a picture of our son and daughter and their 2 daughters and son. It’s at the bus stop for elementary school. I had them all face me shoulder to shoulder straight faced and then had them turn to the side and look over their shoulder at me and smirk. It looks like a lineup.
Where have the last 3 decades gone? We are so lucky they are all healthy and doing okay.
The neighborhood is starting to have some turnover. I saw that happen to my parent’s neighborhood and now it’s happening to ours. That’s life, constant change.
Open so often, no sense changing the sign. Photo by Mike Hartley
After a quick refueling (lunch) the shop is open again and the printer has just fired up to complete the Christmas day prints of the family celebration. Then upload some new images to the photo site and spend a little time organizing there.
Do you play in your daily life? What says “playtime” to you? – A kind of upbeat question from the daily writing prompt.
I had to think for a second about if I play in daily life. But only for a second or two and then I smiled about the little things I do that would be considered play. Like sneaking up behind my better half. Trading barbs with friends. Taking a few minutes to look at some cartoons from artist I follow or a comedian and laugh.
Sometimes I’ll play at being a plumber, electrician, carpenter, landscaper, mechanic. Sometimes successful but most of the time I come to my senses and call a professional.
Many might say I play at my hobbies all day. I play little games with myself to keep me motivated.
What says “Playtime” to me, is my grandchildren. When they come running to me and grab my hand and take off running saying “play with me” I almost lose my mind with happiness. My grandson wants to ride the tractor each time he visits. He’ll grab me as he gets out of the car and lead me right to the shed.
My granddaughter gets so excited with the sprinkler and splashpads when it’s warm. And of course, one of her favorites is playing Diner with us. She makes up signs and sets up a restaurant and announces her opening and we have a meal. Or she’ll run down the hallway yelling “draw with me” as she ducks into my son’s old room which is “the drawing room” to her.
Ah, play, yeah, I play. But I still think back to when I was very young, and we could play all day outside. That was play. Sports, building forts from woods, riding bikes, skateboards, sleds, tag, ping pong, and every board game known to man.
Those days were cut short for me. Maybe that is why I’m so happy to be part of my grandkids play and fun.
Beach Volleyball in Ocean City MD. Photo by Mike Hartley
I was beginning to fade this morning when an Imminent Threat Alert from the National Weather Service came at 4:29am and the phone made an unfamiliar sound so of course it got my attention. Well, I got up and saw what this snow squall line is about.
If you were driving, I could see it being a white out condition. The winds were certainly very impressive, but the snow wasn’t heavy enough for a total white out except for brief periods. It did coat the roads and I’m sure that it was slippery.
The snow left as quickly as it came. Leaving a dusting that was mostly gone by the time I got back up later this morning. I’ve had it with the below average temps and strong winds though.
Sometimes I feel a bit off step with others. And I’m fine with that now instead of being self-conscious about it. We each have our own beat and lyrics.
I marched to others tunes for so long I’ve had trouble getting in step with my own. But going into the new year I feel different. Could it be it took me two years of retirement to unwind and get back my own path.
No more stealth mode or hiding my head. Time to throw it to the hawks or against the wall and see what sticks or is devoured.
Photo by Mike Hartley
Can’t believe I stayed awake to see the New Year in for 26. Still young in mind even though the body may disagree.
The daily writing prompt asks – What are your biggest challenges?
Challenging myself and then getting out of my own way. Staying motivated and making the best use of each day.
The challenges I see are the ones in front of me each day now. If I choose to devote the energy and resources to the task or goal. I used to make things more complicated but it’s really pretty simple. I just need to do the thing.
And then move onto the next thing. And on and on. That’s when challenges become fun, because you’re in a rhythm and what was once a challenge is routine. And new challenges present themselves and your appetite for them just grows.
Glad my teeth are still up to the challenge. Photo by Mike Hartley
I don’t make resolutions, but I do take the beginning of the year to refocus, renew efforts, rebalance or start over. And then of course it’s always wise to maybe drop things that weren’t productive or fun.
Coming off being sick for a bit this month I feel especially inspired. So, I’m off to enjoy the last hours of 2025.
Physical
In 2025 I got off to a strong start regarding exercise. Spring and Summer were active and even early fall, but after that I fell off the table and got slack. Grade for the year C+. So, I fired up the treadmill earlier this week and that will again be my daily companion till the weather warms. I’ve also decided not to measure distance but in time, walking, jogging or lifting weights.
Photography
This will be my primary focus. I believe the saying goes practice makes perfect. I’m going to set aside 3-4 hours a day minimum to shooting and editing. More if possible.
I could fill a post with just things on the list to learn. My own equipment to start with. Lighting and different aspects and areas of photography. Like more street shooting and many more.
Then there are the printing goals and building out the photo site on Zenfolio.
There are several projects I hope to attempt both shooting and presentations.
Writing
I hope to Chime In on many topics for the coming year here in the blog, but I’ve got to get going on the books I started to write. So those two will be competing for my time all year.
Nature plays these. Photo by Mike Hartley
In terms of my written communication, I will probably continue to keep the pace I have now. I write to my children a few times a week. My friends fairly often and even extended friends periodically.
Arts
Well, if I’m increasing time spent on my other hobbies I might as well declare that here also. And given I did more drawing and painting in the last few months of 25 than anything previously I might be on a roll there.
Food
Oh yeah, I love to eat. So, you will see me sharing those great meals more often. And I’m committed to getting in the kitchen more often myself.
Focusing and Results
Lots of ideas and weak execution. Time to change that dynamic. I’ve been enjoying the flexibility of retirement and maybe spending time on the wrong things.
A Happy New Year to you and wishes for good health and happiness in your lives.
Best pizza in December 2025. Anthony’s Italian House in Clarksville. Great crust, good sauce and cheese. A little light on the toppings (1/2 Bacon and 1/2Mushroom) but excellent taste overall. Also have had great cheesesteaks subs and will be back to sample some other Italian dishes.
Lost power for a few minutes, from those winds. Being outside for a bit yesterday, I thought a warmer image was the way to go today given the temps felt like the single digits with the winds.
This shot made me put on the song Lola from The Kinks. Annapolis Maryland. Photo by Mike Hartley.
Only 14 hours before we start a new year. Might as well put them to good use. Mixing some exercise and music for a bit, then back to work on the computer. I’ve got at least 50 shots to edit this morning and some to print.
I’m finishing a book I got from Xmas I started yesterday. Reading more is something I failed on in 2025 but I’m taking strides to fix that in 26.
The camera also came out of the case and did that feel nice in my hands again. I’ll have to download those and begin those edits. And see what else I can visualize today.
Random Thoughts of the Day
Made some summer plans with the family yesterday. Can’t wait for that weather to return.
Today is one of those warming your car up before you go anywhere days.
Apparently, there is a finite number of lies that can be told, when people stop believing them.
I drove for over 4 decades without seat warmers. Makes me think to myself how I ever did that.
What makes you feel nostalgic? – A fine question for the last day of the year from the daily writing prompt.
In no particular order.
Talking to very old friends. Talking to old friends I’ve worked with for decades. The smell of ink. The smell of newsprint. The sound of a press. The sound of a newsroom in action during a crisis.
The sound of my grandchildren playing and realizing they’re no longer my children.
Seeing the church, we were married in. Driving into the neighborhoods we grew up in.
Hearing any V8 roar to life. Any classic car, the smell of high-octane fuel being burning. Any V-Twin cranking up and that roll of the throttle on exit.
Seeing my wife’s face today and seeing the same girl that said yes to my proposal many decades ago.
The feel of sand between the toes. The smell of Thrashers french-fries and steamed crabs anywhere in Ocean City.
Seeing hundreds of photos on my office walls of history with family and friends.
Oh my, I couldn’t forget about music. The number of songs that make the hair on my neck stand up or dance like the Blues-Brothers. The notes that make me throw my head back and do a windmill on the guitar. Knowing and singing all the lyrics to many songs going down the road. There is also a drummer in this body dying to get out.
Seeing our first home/apartment complex. Seeing our first single family home.
Arlington National Cemetery.
Having a snowball and each time feeling like it’s the first one I ever had. The sound of bells from the ice cream truck.
Family Xmas ornaments that have been passed down or accumulated over the decades.
The sound of a basketball bouncing on a driveway and off the backboard or through the net.
The backup at the Chesapeake Bay Bridge. Walking the boardwalk.
Oh, so many pictures and movies and memories of pets passed.
My 50th high school reunion.
I guess the older you get the more nostalgic you have.
Tonight, will mark the last evening of work at my old career, 2 years ago. Two full years of retirement seems to have gone by quickly.
My last night was supposed to be December 31st, but they weren’t going to pay me beyond midnight, so the boss gave us New Years Eve off. A parting gift, I guess.
As this Tuesday fades into the evening. I think back on when 6pm hit and I started my overnight shift. Something I won’t return to or recommend to others to pursue unless it meets your needs. And if it does, don’t do it for long, it’s rough on every part of life.
I’m not falling into that trap of being hard on myself for all that I didn’t accomplish this year. I’m pretty happy with what we did fit in given the hectic nature of the past 12 months.
Yes, I continue to sail in these uncharted waters of the blogsphere. It’s a community I find fun in and much more civil than other platforms. It’s a challenge and one I hope to devote a bit more time to this year.
Random Thoughts of the Day
The only time I like wind is when I need a cool breeze off the water in the middle of summer while on the beach.
There is a limit on patience. Most know when that is reached.
A shower is sometimes the most relaxing part of the day.
Putting up holiday lights is a lot more fun than taking them down.
What relationships have a positive impact on you? Not a bad question to ponder given that relationships change over time.
Luckily for me there are a great number of relationships that have had a positive impact on me. All my close friends and family of course. A great deal of professional relationships has positively affected my life.
But instead of the typical praise upon a person or group, I’m going to reflect on an unusual positive impact. It’s not a person.
It’s my car. Each time I get in my car I feel good. Each time I start the ignition it feels better. And when I get out on some back roads it feels great.
It’s the first time since my early youth that I’ve had a car I’m proud of and that is fun to drive. It’s nothing much, just a little Miata MX5. But there is something from the first time I saw and drove it that I fell in love with.
The relationship hits 10 years now, and I’m certain it will start giving me some problems to deal with but that is okay because the upside is so great.
Wow, what a useless question from the daily writing prompt. If you started a sports team, what would the colors and mascot be? Very lame.
Well, I’ll take a pass on that one and answer the question of the final Monday of the Year of 2025. What should we do with our granddaughter today? Of course, we will build forts, she is really into creating her world through the cushions and blankets and chairs and couches in the house.
Cannons at Fort McHenry Photo by Mike Hartley
She will get her choices at lunch and dinner. I’d like to take her out for one of those meals. Mainly because I’d like to get out. And I do enjoy trying to get her to try new foods.
She likes a game called Cover Monster where I chase here with big blankets. I’ll see if she would like to paint with me a bit. Maybe I’ll have her help hang some things on my office walls.
We have high wind warnings today and into tomorrow so outside play will be very limited. I hope we don’t lose power.
I’m making her some bacon this morning. She used to love that but now seems a bit indifferent to it this morning. That’s kids for ya.
While it’s always a bit of work watching a 6-year-old, it’s also a fun way to spend the last Monday of 2025.
They went there. The daily writing prompt brings this question – How have your political views changed over time?
Yes, they have changed. I never could understand or phantom how someone like Hitler could come to power and take over so completely. Nor did I ever think it was possible again. I was wrong and I now understand.
Here is what I look for in someone who I will vote for. I’m looking for the best person, with the best ideas with ethics and integrity.
I get the same expression as this couple below quite often now. Either something someone says, or does, or acts in an inappropriate way. Things that used to stand out as exceptions are more commonplace and almost dismissed as normal.
Along Baltimore’s Inner Harbor waterfront.
There are far more good actions taking place each day of course. At least I’m hoping more of us see the good deeds being carried out, big or small. From common courtesy, to acts of compassion, or the jobs that EMS, Police, Fire and Nursing do every moment.
I’ve always enjoyed people watching. I haven’t done that much street photography. I don’t take shots to make people look bad. I don’t think anyone looks bad because we are all unique and I was taught not to judge size, shape, color, language, nationality, handicap or disability. My mom taught me to respect everyone.
I think I’ll try to look for more smiles this coming year. That might be a big ask given the climate but hey, I like a challenge.
Random Thoughts of the Day
It felt good to accomplish several things yesterday but also have a restful day.
When my granddaughter stops in my office to look at the hundreds of photos on the walls and she starts to pick out people or ask who someone is, my heart warms.
We have always made good use of vehicles. Our current fleet has 14, 10 and 8 years of age on them. Oh, I guess you could add my mower to the mix, its got 4 wheels. I think that one is 27 years old.
The daily writing prompt says – You get to build your perfect space for reading and writing. What’s it like?
To start with, that would be two separate places. My office is where I write and it’s perfect for me except the chair I sit in and the occasional mess it becomes when I’m not maintaining it. Which is most of the time.
I like to read in a comfortable chair. The recliner was nice till that broke. So, this spring, summer and fall I think I’ll read outside on my patio. It’s a nice big area, with lots of sun and a privacy fence around it. It has my hammock and an outdoor patio set with a big umbrella for shade if needed. I do bring my beach chairs out and they are comfortable.
Besides, instead of taking the time to build out my perfect spaces, I’d rather utilize what I have and write and read more.
I downloaded the shooting from Christmas day of the kids and grandkids unwrapping some gifts and around the house. But I found two images in the beginning of the batch that I didn’t remember even taking. Shot on 12/14 which was about 10 days into my flu battle. That was about half-way through the total fight.
Photo by Mike Hartley
I must have opened the back door, looked out and took these shots of the sky, trees and part of my small shed and looked the other way towards the neighbors behind us.
That was the only activity that camera got in 20 days and having no memory of doing it is strange. I know my better half couldn’t have because she doesn’t know how to turn it on.
Photo by Mike Hartley
But the camera and I are back in action. Partners in crime and all that nonsense. I think I’ll head out this evening or tomorrow night or both and collect some holiday lights in the county we live.
Random Thoughts of the Day
I like Christmas leftovers better than Thanksgiving leftovers.
Young grandchildren are the best. That is all I know so far that opinion may change.
I reached out to some people who were once close but had gotten very distant. They have chosen to stay distant and that’s both fine with me and sad for them.
I could spend a few days answering the question posed by the daily writing prompt, but I won’t subject you to such an extensive list of wonderful cars I’ve driven from the 60s to present day. The question is – What is your all-time favorite automobile?
Style Wise – the 1971 Z28 Camaro split bumper. Runner up is Eleanor from the movie Gone in 60 Seconds.
Performance Wise – This is a tough one. I’m going to define it by becoming part of the seat when the clutch is released. In no particular order. And yes, I’ve ridden in or driven all of them.
1970 Plymouth Roadrunner with 440 6pack. – 1970 454 Chevelle LS6 – 2012 Corvette Grand Sport heavily modified – 69 Z28 Camaro 302 with all the racing works.
Fun Wise – The car I have now. A 2016 Mazda Miata. It’s no power demon, it’s just fun to drive and be in. It’s a convertible (my first) and it’s a roadster.
When its clean. Photo by Mike Hartley
I wish the freezing rain wasn’t coming. I’d take the cover off and go for a ride today.
How am I creative – asks the daily writing prompt.
I try but I’m not sure how successful I am at the creative hobbies I dip into. I’m trying to paint again. I love to photograph but I’m stalled there the last few weeks. I like to write but I have a long way to go there in creativity.
Sometimes I’m creative with the grandchildren successfully.
I have been successful at making my friends laugh. That I like a lot.
I’m going to get a lot more creative in the cooking department this coming year.
I seafood. Scallops on the grill Photo by Mike Hartley
I’m what you might call the last-minute man. This year more than ever due to being under the weather most of the month. But the shopping was completed yesterday, the little I do, and that brings me to the tradition of wrapping gifts on Xmas eve.
From years of fretting if I got the right gift for my better half, to putting together the many toys and bikes for our children.
These days it’s much simpler. Mainly due to my better half being such a good shopper for our children and grandchildren. And we don’t exchange big gifts between ourselves anymore. We like to go someplace or an event instead. We still do a lot of stocking stuffers, but that is it.
Are you ready for some Xmas? Photo by Mike Hartley
Now the kids and grandkids we splurge on, and I love that I’m able to do that. Those decades of hard work and fun along the way were also part of busting my ass, putting up with some bad people from time to time, poor pay, long commutes and lack of appreciation. Those days are behind me now and I’m in charge and trying to enjoy my remaining time.
Christmas Eve has always been a significant night each year. Filled with great emotion and a mix of joy and fun. And always a lot of wrapping. There are so many memories of these nights.
I worked a lot on Christmas Eve’s and Christmas mornings. Our business was daily, every day. The years I worked night shift, getting off between 3am and 7am depending on the year and position was the worst. I was so tired on Xmas day it was hard to power though some years. A lot of them I’d be working Xmas night also.
But there were years I did have Christmas Eve evening off, and I’d still be up wrapping gifts at 3 or 4am before grabbing a few hours sleep. The same will be true tonight. I have a few notes to drop people, I’m storing away the many boxes of decorations, maybe putting up another string of lights because the kids enjoy them.
I’ll also spend some time in thought and hopefully smile at some pictures that will stir some great memories.
The daily writing prompt asks – Who are the biggest influences in your life?
My better half is probably the biggest influencer in my life. She helped me overcome my alcohol problem which was substantial coming out of my late teens and early 20s.
We have made a family together and she helped me be the best parent I could be.
Right there at the top with her is my mother. A woman who set me on the right path in life with many insights, wisdom, ethics, compassion and love for all people.
I have a couple of best friends who have also influenced my life. Sometimes in the way my better half doesn’t approve of, but we have had some wonderful times and adventures. We have gotten together almost weekly for decades.
We are all professionals, both at work and play. We challenge each other, we support each other, we love each other like brothers.
I’ve been blessed to have many others also who have supported me both personally and professionally.
Sharing what I know about the year I was born is the ask of the daily writing prompt today.
Being a car guy, I’ll start with one of the classic cars of the generation – the 57 Chevy.
Jackie Robinson retired from baseball. – My mom’s favorite player in her day. The Dodgers announce the move from Brooklyn NY to Los Angeles California.
Burger King introduced the Whopper. – Always better than Micky D’s.
Wham-O produced the first Frisbee. I still like throwing one around.
Dr Seuss The Cat in the Hat is published.
Average yearly income was under 5K a year.
Elvis Presley bought Graceland.
Oh, being a techie this caught my eye. IBM sells it’s first compiler for the FORTRAN programming language.
Being in my senior years I have a lot of past Christmases to look back on. From the days in a small apartment with mom, dad and my sister. Too muted Xmas celebrations after my father passed. Then celebrating with my better half and our families together or at each home during the holidays.
Remembering those past celebrations with both a smile and a few tears. Photo by Mike Hartley
And as parents transitioned from their homes, ours became the focal point for family gatherings. Both our parents have been gone a while now even though at this time of the year always seems closer than it was.
Holiday are times of highs and lows for me. Not much middle ground. Our children and grandchildren provide much of the joy. But those times alone and even when together I get pains of those who were so loved but missing now.
Sometimes I smile when thinking of Christmas’s past. Sometimes it brings tears to my eyes. I guess those strong memories will never fade and always be part of the celebration and sadness.
So many struggle with the perfect gift. So many are under the pressures of travel and stresses associated with that. Then there are the struggles of family who aren’t on the same page. We have a few family members who have removed themselves from everyone. My own sister being one of them. I kind of feel sad for them but that was their choice and the only thing I can do is control how I feel and not worry about their decision-making process.
It’s hard to remember some Christmas seasons after a significant loss. I’m sure my son and his family will have mixed feelings, this one being the first without their beloved pet. She was such a part of celebrations because I’ve never seen an animal unwrap gifts like a human before. So gentle to just remove the paper.
I’ll be spending a lot of time checking in with friends and extended family the next few days trying to spread some joy and cheer.
The question today from the daily writing prompt is – Are you a good judge of character?
That is a tough one. I’ve certainly made some misjudgments over history. But I’d also add I’ve made better evaluations than bad ones.
Being a good judge of character is very important in life. Picking the right friends, the right people to work for.
Sometimes though you are thrust into situations where others lacking character are either around you or even maybe a boss.
I’ve been in situations where co-workers have lied and I’ve challenged them and won. I’ve had bosses ask me to lie and refused and been taken to task on it, all the way to a VP for refusing to support my bosses boss lie. It really pissed him off, but I refused to do it and was not punished.
I’ve had bosses try to physically intimidate and it hasn’t worked. As a matter of fact, it backfired, on them because he then knew one or more of us would kick his ass. Because he heard us say it out loud and walked away.
Once a boss came in drunk on my night shift and started to physically push me around when I was very young. That didn’t work out too well for him either. That was the closest I’ve come to being that mad and hurting someone seriously. Pressman and editorial folk separated us and took him out of the building. He didn’t even remember it the next morning when he came in. Being an alki has the effect on some. He was also my boss’s boss at that time. Good guy when sober but a mean drunk.
Character isn’t what people just say, it’s a lot of their actions.
Don’t always judge people by their looks to judge character. I rode a motorcycle for a long time. I’ve come across some big burly intimidating looking bikes from time to time. Most of them have been good people.
Don’t always judge a book by it’s cover. Photo by Mike Hartley
We used to get downtown Baltimore quite a bit but haven’t in a long time other than doctor’s appointments. And those aren’t fun. So, when the weather warms I think we will give it another go. Maybe an O’s game at Orioles Park. A beautiful and fun venue for Major League Baseball.
This is an old shot I just found in a reject file. Sometimes I judge harshly. Barnes and Noble downtown closed years ago. Photo by Mike Hartley
I’ve been to the Maryland Zoo which is in Baltimore several times in recent years. But a visit to the National Aquarium is a few decades overdue. The last time was when my children were young.
National Aquarium. Photo by Mike Hartley
I’ve got to say it was quite disappointing to see the Ravens go down tonight against New England. But injuries, mistakes and missed opportunities look to put the playoffs out of reach.
There are 3 museums I’d like to visit this year in Baltimore. The Walters Art Museum, The Baltimore Museum of Art and The American Visionary Art Museum.
There is no shortage of great places to eat and that is also one of my favorite pastimes. Which makes me think of a midnight snack and I’ve got 9 minutes to prepare it so till tomorrow.
The first day of winter is today. That is a bunch of bull because it’s been very cold for weeks now if not 2 months. And now we are headed for the coldest month of the year, January in Central Maryland, and I’m depressed.
I hate cold with a passion, and it’s been too cold already. The only time it’s appealing outside is when there is snow covering everything. Otherwise, it’s grey and drab. And that eventually turns to slush and mud. My negative attitude about this season will only start to dimmish in March.
So, in a few months I’ll start to turn the corner and get back to my normal self and my open hostility towards the season will fade and my morning smile will return to start each day.
It would be nice if winter started and ended on the same day. Photo by Mike Hartley
Random Thoughts of the Day
I read the last living survivor of Pearl Harbor passed. Made me think of my Uncle Frank who was aboard the battleship West Virginia that day.
Suggestion to the NFL. If you take out the team’s QB with an illegal hit your QB should have to sit that game.
Looks like the clown imitating the president who wants the Noble Peace Prize is about to get us into a war with Venezuela. Nice work bonehead.
I’m glad I don’t live in a neighborhood with a HOA.
I don’t need the Epstein files to know that Trump was deeply involved with him and those young girls. What would you expect from one of the most vile creatures on earth.
When are you the most happy? – the daily writing prompt wants to know.
When I’m playing or holding my grandchildren. If I can make them smile and laugh. If I can teach them something. If we can share a meal. If they open a present. When they want to ride the tractor with me. When we run through a sprinkler or swim in a pool on summer family vacation. When I get to wake them from their afternoon nap.
Bonus happy – if their parents (my children) are also there watching us play and be happy.
I’m always 100% behind my family. Photo by Mike Hartley
Time has flown by the last two weeks, and I have little to nothing to show for it. I haven’t touched a paint brush, and the cameras have been in their cases for the most part. The energy needed to be in my workroom just wasn’t there.
I’m good at writing to both my children very often and that was on hold for two weeks. I just got back in that grove yesterday.
I haven’t seen my best friends in almost 3 weeks now and that this about the longest we have gone this year or more. I haven’t been out to see any holiday decorations and experience shopping.
Yesterday I got started by hitting the grocery store with my better half. But boy did that wear me out. Got a good night’s rest for a change of pace so I’m on a mission to accomplish a lot today.
Building bridges to better health. Photo by Mike Hartley
If you are a senior citizen, please take this new strain of flu called Subclade K seriously. It’s nothing like what we have had for years, and we are pretty good at dealing with the ones the flu shot has covered previously. It’s the first time I’ve thought about going to the hospital in years and has changed my future perspective if I get that sick again I will.
Random Thoughts of the Day
Republicans – defending the indefensible.
The heroic actions of the people who tried to stop the shooting rampage at Bondi Beach are remarkable and should be honored. I hope that if faced with a similar situation I will act in that way.
Verizon service this year after the new equipment install has been piss poor – Bet it’s not just my Opinion.
People who consider themselves so smart are pretty good at accepting lies each day.
Pardons for some of the vilest creatures on earth seems to be this presidents cup of tea.
The daily writing prompt asks – What was the last thing you did for play or fun?
Now there is a question I usually could answer easily but being fighting off the nasty flu bug the last few weeks hasn’t lent itself to much fun or play.
I guess the last thing that was fun was picking out our Christmas tree. And that is stretching it a bit because it wore me out and was more expensive than I thought.
So here are some fun and play I hope to start incorporating very soon. I got the cover off my Miata and hope to take a ride today or tomorrow and that is always FUN. The top will have to stay up though.
There is a chance we will see our children for a short bit this weekend so that is GREAT.
I think I’ll get together with one of my best friends tomorrow or Monday and catch a football game.
The daily writing prompt wants me to – List your top 5 grocery store items.
Instead, I’m going to the following that needs to change.
More people are going hungry than ever in this world. More people will be going without adequate health care or insurance or both. More people can’t find that job that sustains life or creates a better path forward. More people in the middle are in less of a position to help those in need which are the same people who support those in need the most.
More and more people thankfully are starting to question our misguided government and the spineless officials in office supporting most of this collapse.
Support your local Food Banks please. Help others have a better holiday season so maybe they can get 5 items.
Describe a man who has positively impacted your life. Not a bad ask by the daily writing prompt.
I have a very good friend named Pete who early in my professional life probably changed my future accent. He did that by instilling confidence in me. Something I severely lacked at the levels I was moving into.
We started off at a company together in the early 70s but worked in different areas. We worked very hard and saw that in each other. We also had some talent and insights on how to do things better in a changing profession.
We gained huge skills and knowledge working for this company and it was our life. And then the ownership sold it into pieces and tore it all apart. Luckily, we were picked up together by the new firm. I think there were about 70 openings for over 400 people who worked there.
We quickly rose over 2 different areas of production and ended up in management roles in addition to our technical and production duties. You wore lots of hats in the old days. But the time together over 2 decades gave us great opportunities and great growth.
But we had a ton of fun along the way. We worked for a very progressive company and were surrounded by people who also believed in us, and we took that organization through several significant technological changes and much success over those years.
I can’t even begin to describe the pressure and fun we had at the same time. As all good things do, this came to an end, and we decided along with another partner to start our own business. We were successful in starting something that no one thought would even get off the ground. Bigger businesses tried to crush us. It didn’t work.
I went another way, less than two years into it because of personal reasons but that business under him and our partner was very successful for another decade till it was bought out by a daily newspaper.
Even though we separated professionally we have always stayed close. Really, he gave me many more things than confidence. He gave me friendship, support, laughter and guidance in life. He is an incredible human being and one who is very special to me.
He is one of the most quiet but effective people I have ever worked with. He is smart beyond any degree, certificate, certification. He is compassionate and funny. He is a family man, he is an ethical man, and one of the few people I hold in admiration.
Pete has been and still is a lifelong friend. Someone I consider a brother. Yeah, we are close.
Thank you, Pete, for all you have done for me over so many decades of my life. Love ya brother.
The building behind this car is one we started our business together in beautiful Ellicott City Maryland. Photo by Mike Hartley
Is your life today what you pictured a year ago? – An interesting question from the daily writing prompt.
Apart from trying to recover fully from this nasty flu bug my life is how I could have pictured it a year ago. A beautiful new granddaughter entered our lives this year. The family is healthy and surviving some troubled times.
Some friendships have changed a bit. Some up and some down. Time will do that. I’ve greatly enjoyed working on my hobbies and I need to do a lot more in that regard. I’ve enjoyed taking rides to where the car points its nose, instead of destinations for work or chores.
I feel like I’ve done a fair job regarding my health by keeping my weight in check, exercising a little more and trying to eat better. That last one still needs a lot of work.
I am surprised how quickly age is affecting my body. Been dealing with a lot more pain this year than previous ones. But hey, I’m getting up, able to love, think and pursue good times.
I had no idea our government was going to break down is such a dramatic fashion though and while I had fears of it, it’s worse than I thought and getting deeper into the darkness day by day. I will fight to change this. I didn’t anticipate spending so much time on this, but it’s now for my children and grandchildren not to leave pieces of crap like our current administration in power.
The daily writing prompt is asking – What skills or lessons have I learned recently?
I’ve been learning some brush techniques while trying to paint. Today I hope to learn how to photograph interesting things in my own home, being I’m not 100% and don’t want to go out in this cold for fear of catching pneumonia.
I learned that dealing with companies AI phone systems is a very frustrating experience. I’ve learned that age does affect your ability to fight off illness.
I learned that what came about to create WWII is possible again. When people won’t stand against corrupt power.
I’m working on skills to improve my writing and photography.
A little color on a grey morning. Photo by Mike Hartley
Even though I’m retired Monday is still a kickoff day. One that I tend to get organized and formulate a plan for the coming days.
Unfortunately, I was still less than half. A complete lack of energy has set in for both of us. A friend said he spoke to another friend who had this for a month. I’m only about 11 days into it and it’s a slow go. Last night I learned my granddaughter is ill with the flu and I’m hoping my daughter doesn’t come down with it.
At least I’m up in the mornings to catch sunrises on webcams till I can get back out and shoot the real ones. This one is from my favorite spot overlooking the Howard County Conservancy. Photo by Mike Hartley
Tis the season they say. With the joy comes the viruses we love to hate. All I know is I don’t want to be sick again this season so I’m going to be masking up when in crowds till spring.
Random Thoughts of the Day
Only Trump could make the tragic deaths of the Reiner’s about himself in the sickest way possible. What a piece of crap. He and the clown show need to go NOW.
When will this country grow a spine and get gun control enforcement that reduces our children being killed.
Verizon really pisses me off. Trouble is all the alternatives seem to have the same number of pissed off customers. Oh yeah, this AI crap when we call to speak to someone, has to go.
I’ve had enough of the cold already, and we aren’t even into the first day of winter yet.
The daily writing prompt is asking me to – Tell us one thing you hope people say about you.
I try hard to be a good person. People will always say what they want about you. And I’m sure all of us have people that might say good and bad. I’m far from perfect.
Recently I was feeling a bit down when a very old friend wrote to me and said the following to me which really pulled me out of a funk.
There is a guy I follow on YouTube who reminds me of you. His name is Sean Stockman, Midlife Stockman channel. The reminding me of you part… not so much in looks (or age, lol), but in his kindness and need to take care of people.
He cleans up overgrown and ill-kept properties in the Detroit area. Watching him… his mannerisms, the way he talks to the audience as if we are helping him, the way he divides the property in sections and completely finishes each section before moving on, the way he takes time out to chat with folks passing by… I always think of you. You (and Sean) are the good guys.
I was thinking I didn’t matter much to people. A very selfish thought because life isn’t about me, but what I can do for others. She snapped me back to reality and made me feel so good about myself again. I thanked her very much obviously for sharing that though.
Nothing could make me happier in life than to just be remembered as a kind and good man.
Out on the Floridian, a smile on my face and loving life. Photo by our departed friend Capt. Dan McMullen if I remember correctly?
Sorry I’m late getting into the holiday spirit. Now that I’m feeling better, I’m going to dive headlong into the season.
Photo by Mike Hartley
The season means a lot of things to me. It’s changed quite a bit over the years. There are many things and people I miss from my past. There are new things like the grandchildren to help fill those voids. There are my own children who each past Christmas are etched in this brain.
Some seasons in the past have been difficult. The pressures of having the right gifts, being able to do all I hoped and feeling like I’ve come up short.
From a very young age missing someone important each year was very hard. More so in watching the impact on my mom and sister. Mom made heroic efforts to make sure our holiday was good, but it always came with her tears and cries, no matter how hard she tried to hide and muffle them. I could see the longing in her eyes, missing her husband. The loneliness she tried to push down was just below the surface.
I also remember her refocusing some years later and the times she would load the car with crafts and gifts and decorations to take and make Bethesda Naval Hospital a festive holiday scene in the units she worked as a Red Cross volunteer. She really got into it. Making so many things by hand. I wish I had a sliver of the artistic talent she had.
I can remember her telling me stories about some of the patients. I think she always looked at these servicemen as an extension of what she lost and could help. She was active in the VFW Woman’s Auxiliary for years also and would do holiday things for them for some years. But she really got into the Red Cross work.
Makes me think I should get more involved in helping others this season. There is no such thing as a effort too small or too late. Sometimes the smallest gestures or gifts mean the most to some. Think I’ll start by making a donation in Mom’s name today to the Red Cross.
The daily writing prompt is asking – Tell us about your first day at something, school, work, as a parent, etc.
I’ll talk about today. Being it’s the first day I’m really feeling like myself again in almost 10 days. I have a smile on my face because I’ve regained my health.
I’m going to go out and get a Christmas tree for the upstairs. I’ll assemble the artificial one for the basement and string the lights on each. I’m going to listen to music and some comedy and laugh for the first time in a while.
I’m going to eat because I feel my appetite returning. I’m going to call one of my best friends who I haven’t spoken to for a while, which is very unusual. We already facetimed our children and grandchildren and they said we look much better.
Remember the best gift you have ever been given is your health. Take care of it.
Found an old photo I guess my mom snapped of me looking into a huge mixing bowl or the washing machine.
Ah to be young again. I still feel young in mind. At least when I push all the bullcrap going on in this country and people around the world to the side for a few moments of mental health.
With snow in the forecast Sunday, I think back to the day when I was just a little older than above and in our first home. I lay in the middle of our backyard making snow angles at night. The quiet and beautiful sky above is still clear in my mind.
Go Navy. Photo by Mike Hartley
Another memory from my early youth is one of my parents being so excited about the Army-Navy game. This takes place this Saturday and I’ll be pulling for my parent’s team GO NAVY. There is a huge chest with pictures, and I remember some of them from being at the Army Navy game when it was played in Philadelphia in the 1950s if my memory is correct.
I mentioned last week that we attended the Polar Ice Express at the National Harbor. Sorry for the delay but the flu had me down for a week. Thought I’d share a few images of the ice sculptures displayed and surrounding area.
We stayed across from the Gaylord Hotel and saved a few hundred $$.
Salute to Service Members.
Show at the atrium level of the Gaylord Hotel.
Tree at National Harbor at night.
More from the show that night.
Entrance lobby to the Gaylord Hotel.
Beginning of the Polar Ice Show.
I can’t wait to take the grandchildren next year.
The Polar Express.
I’d love to watch these creations being made.
The colors they used in the ice were wonderful.
They told us it was 7 degrees on the tour. They give you parkas to wear over your coats.
Next year I’m going to try some different types of shots instead of just the displays.
I guess this is my first post with a holiday theme. More to come.
Have you ever performed on stage or given a speech? Asks the daily writing prompt.
I’m no performer or speechmaker. But I have done both and it both terrifies me and was a lot of fun at the same time. I used to do more when I was younger at the job. We used to have a very social company and would create a show from time to time.
Speeches are things I’ve done on both happy and sad occasions. I can write a fairly good speech, but I need work on my delivery. I get nervous every time no matter what the occasion.
Entertainment on the stage at the county fairgrounds. Photo by Mike Hartley
I’m starting to feel human again after a week of fighting the flu. Got a nasty strain that was worse than I could remember one being.
I’ve had to go to the vault again for a few images. I’ll see if I can do better next week. I hope everyone is well and getting ready for the holiday season.
Come join the fun of Thursday Doors. The link to Dan’s Site – No Facilities to see many more talented displays of grand entrances. Have a great week all. And as always thank you Dan.
From Mt Airy Maryland. Photo by Mike Hartley
I can’t wait for the warm weather to return and be outside again.
The 30 For 30 special on ESPN about Stuart Scott and his battle with cancer was good last night. We share a lot of the same thoughts about cancer. I guess a lot of people do. We live for our children and family.
I remember hearing the first time I had cancer. I thought it was a death sentence then just as he did and many others do when they hear that word and their health mixed for the first time.
Years later again I heard those words a second time and I started to wonder about life again. I may not be as good as some or how Stuart attacked his cancer, but I still try to make good use of time.
Very early next year there is another test for me. But nothing has changed in my feelings. Stuart passed much earlier in life when his own children were young. Mine are grown but I have grandchildren and love them very much and want to be part of their lives for a long time. And of course, my life partner who gives me strength and love daily.
There are so many emotions when facing any health challenge. I’m just as terrified of that word now as I was before I had any experience with it.
Be YOURSELF. Don’t let cancer change who you are.
This organization does a lot for cancer research and is one I donate to because 100% of the donation goes to research. V Foundation
The daily writing prompt is asking – What are your favorite physical activities or exercises?
Exercise wise, I walk a bit and lift some light weights to try to keep some form. Activities are playing with my grandchildren in any way possible. Pretending to be whatever animal they want to ride. Teaching them sports, running through a sprinkler together or swimming while on vacation.
If my health holds up over the winter, I’m looking forward to getting on a basketball court again. I loved playing ball and I miss it greatly. I think I’m going to try to hit the court every day that it’s nice out in 26.
There are a ton of physical activities I do around the home and yard and that is a lot of my physical workout. None are my favorites but after they are all done, I do feel that the exercise was worth it and I save a fortune in paying others to do it.
Can’t wait for March Madness and warmer temps to return. Photo by Mike Hartley
What is something others do that sparks your admiration? Not a bad ask from the daily writing prompt.
Kindness and Courage are two things that immediately popped to mind. Two things I am seeing a lack of now days. Yeah, the holiday season is bringing flashes of kindness now, but world and events in this country are overwhelming those good acts by far.
One of my favorite shots from Arlington National Cemetery. He walked by and nodded when I was visiting my parents. Photo by Mike Hartley
What’s your favorite cartoon? – This question from the daily writing prompt made me smile. I loved watching cartoons as a child, and I still enjoy the old ones today if I run across them.
I think my favorite was the Bugs Bunny Road Runner Hour. Others were Flintstones, Tom & Jerry and all the Looney Tunes cast.
The catch phase they used to say in the closing of the show of the Looney Tunes cartoon – “That’s All Folks”
Have a good morning, all.
Sunrise this morning wasn’t as warm as this. I think I saw 9 degrees. Photo by Mike Hartley
Yesterday broke my 484 day consecutive posting streak. I just didn’t have the energy to get out of bed and to the office and decided discretion was the better part of valor.
Today wasn’t much better but I’ll take any improvement at this point. I can’t wait to fully recover and enjoy the holiday season. So today starts a new effort at consistency.
Hillside, Headstones and Wreaths at Arlington National Cemetery
Thought – I’ve been watching some of the news on that drug boat strike and the call to kill the two survivors of the first strike. My father was a Hospital Corpsman, which is the title now but I think it was Pharmacist Mate during that war and changed afterward. He served on a destroyer in the Pacific in WWII, in Korea and on Operation Deep Freeze.
I think he would have been appalled at the crap being peddled now by the clown show in office. Killing defenseless people is wrong. Of course, I could also imagine him being disgusted at the ass kissing our President does with the Communist leader of Russia.
I can’t help but feel the current people are putting so many of our service members in harm’s way. Not only that, we are all less safe with this incompetent leadership at the helm. Trump and Hegseth have proved they will throw you under the bus in a heartbeat, so the military leaders and law enforcement are going to be quickly faced with a number of very difficult decisions. Are you going to follow orders of a lying malignant narcissist and a news host, or are you going to do the right thing.
Day 3 of this flu bug and no better yet. My better half also has come down with it so it’s ugly here. We think we must have gotten that new variant because neither of us has felt this sick in a long time.
The daily writing prompt asks again my favorite place I have visited. Where is it?
There is no change to the answer to this question that I did in last years post titled Fav Place. The shores of Maryland and Delaware are my choices. Normally I update with some new info over the last year but I have the flu and it’s kicking my behind so I’m going back to bed.
Looking forward to being better and sharing more in the coming days.
In coming up with a title for this post, I first put Nice Break. While that was very true of the last two days from our normal routine, the title Lucky Break was more applicable.
My better half and I took a trip to the National Harbor in Maryland to see the Polar Express Ice show at the Gaylord Hotel. Along with all the holiday decorations and Xmas show in the atrium.
We stayed across the street at the Residence Inn by Marriottand being we had some points built up we used those to the room was very reasonable. It was a great time. A dinner at McCormick and Schmicks. A long night’s rest and then a good breakfast followed by a walk by the water.
It got a little chilly, so we headed to the MGM hotel and casino on the way out to gamble a few dollars and have lunch in the food court.
We went through the casino, out the lobby where all the Xmas decorations are set up and then walked the aisle with shops and the food court. It was about 11:40 am and noticed that some didn’t open till noon or 2pm so we wandered back to the casino, gambled for about 20 minutes and came out to go eat and saw police running through the lobby and heard people talking about gunfire and they had sealed off access to that area of shops and restaurants.
The shooting occurred just before noon. News reports noted that they locked down local schools. But what really dawned on me is that if this had happened any other building, the place would have been locked down and security would have at least sealed that floor. Especially a public building like that.
But nope, the money-making machine must continue to operate 24/7/365. I bet people in the casino never knew what happened till they got home, for those smart enough to leave a casino. I guess they have discussed those situations with police because it was MGM staff blocking the hallway entrance to the area, not police or tape even. I could have walked right past this slightly built woman if I had intention to.
The “nothing is wrong, nothing to be seen, we don’t have details” is pure planning at work. Police coming through with guns past patrons going in and out of the casino was a bit unreal knowing someone had been killed with a gun a few hundred feet away. That seems wrong to me.
But unlike Kevin Bacon in the movie Animal House where he keeps saying “All is well” before he’s trampled in a stampede of people, we have business as normal at MGM at National Harbor.
From the WTOP article on this incident I see the following from the police chief of PG County – “MGM is safe,” Nader said. “The harbor is safe.” Well maybe the building didn’t get any bullet holes, but something sure did and that isn’t safe.
It’s something that everyone should realize. We aren’t safe anywhere. That must be one of the richest and exclusive areas around. I saw so much law in the Harbor area that if you blinked you saw another one. And I saw a ton of people with SECURITY written on their shirts, vest and jackets at MGM
I’m thinking we might have been back in that area of shooting if I didn’t get lucky and win $60 at a slot machine just before we went to get food. Looking back, it seems a bit surreal that life just went on as normal there, even though someone lost their life. My condolences to the family of another victim of gun violence.
Well, the lobby was pretty. Before the police running through it, with guns out.
Shot this about 40 minutes before the lobby became full of police running through. Photo by Mike Hartley
What is the one thing you would change about yourself? – An interesting challenge to one’s self.
I’ve lived a long life. I’m very thankful for that. Many have it far worse so I’m not going to complain too loudly but I wish I had a bit better health.
It’s one of those stages in life. When you’re young you go to a lot of weddings. Lots of friends. Then a pause and then a few friends second weddings or some older friend’s kids weddings. Then a pause and then it’s your own children’s and friend’s children’s weddings.
I never have done wedding photography but occasionally at some weddings I’d try to get shots at different angles than the wedding photographer. Photo by Mike Hartley
And now another pause. Maybe a permanent pause. It will be a good number of years before the grandchildren are even grown or dating. Neither of my parents saw my children married while my wife’s parents were alive seeing both.
It’s one of those things I think about now as I looked at my granddaughter on Thanksgiving and wondered if I would see that beautiful smile on her wedding day. That would be something.
Life is so unpredictable. I’ve wasted time and not taken full advantage of it at times as we all do. I’m taking moments in more deeply now. I appreciate each time I see family and friends. Each event, trip or adventure and even phone call.
On this morning, where the temperatures are in the freezing range, it’s hard to think about taking a dip but that is exactly what I thought of when I ran across an old shot of my long-gone pool. I should have used it more when I had the opportunity.
It’s been gone for quite a while now. But I still miss it. I got the most use out of it in the family. Rightly so, because I spent the time keeping it clean and open and closed. With a little help from my better half at the beginning and end of each season.
But it seemed like I spent more time maintaining it than enjoying it. And the saying that they are money sinks is true. It was there when we purchased the home. Well, let me rephrase that, it was a hole in the ground with a ripped liner and things living and growing in it and out of it. Some of the concrete backing had cracks, it had an oversized pump that blew out the small filter system and landscaping that looked like it hadn’t been landscaped. There were some beautiful azalea bushes and a weeping cherry tree. A fence in bad shape and a falling retaining wall. Oh, the thin concrete walk around it was surrounded by pea gravel.
What a mess. Built a retaining wall, thousands, in pool repairs, more concrete, new fence, new filter, remove planters and tree because they made a mess of the pool. Removed the gravel and added concrete and then removed the water and filled it in. The life and death of a pool.
The question of the day is – Are you more of a night or morning-person?
For a while there I was both. I worked an overnight shift and would stay up till mid morning.
Now I guess I’m more of a morning person if the morning starts shortly after midnight. I tend to rise well before the sun but enjoy that part of the day the best.
Kicking it to sunrise. Saw this couple on the beach getting some action in. Photo by Mike Hartley
I usually wait till the month of December to start hanging lights. Truth be told, mostly the second or third week of the month. Not this year, I started unboxing them yesterday but didn’t really hang any.
Today though, there are lots of lights to hang. Some years when I was working it was a chore. Now it’s a lot of fun because I have the time to do it and not sacrifice something else. I remember this feeling last year also. Another thing retirement has changed perspective on.
I can’t wait till they are all hung and evening comes so I can turn them on.
I’m not a huge fan of this month. It’s cold to start with and my hostility towards cold knows no bounds. It’s a month of people under enormous pressure, which can lead to some erratic and unpredictable behavior. Just go for a drive if you need proof.
It’s a time for families which is very difficult for a lot of people. Some are missing and mourning family members that have passed. Some are separated by great distances and can’t be together. Some are brought together but don’t want to be.
Some could be but chose not to which can be hurtful to others. Increased stress leads to poor decisions and bad habits. A troubled year could weigh more heavily as things are recounted again. Financial uncertainty looms over many.
Being it’s the first of the month though I’ll bring it around to some positive possibilities. I can’t wait to see the kid’s and grandchildren’s faces on Christmas. The month will be loaded with great food. I’ll try to bring a bit of relief to those who are stressed with a smile and laughter. I started yesterday sending a good joke to one of my best friends who’s always stressed.
Tomorrow is Giving Tuesday, and I have a list of donations to make. I didn’t get out to support Small Business Saturday, but I will be out spending with local merchants this week. I’m got a ton of people to reach out to with heartfelt holiday greetings. Maybe attend a Maryland basketball game.
And if I’m lucky, that any snow we get will be easy to shovel away. Welcome to December, glad we all made it.
What are your feelings about eating meat? – Of course I had to go look at last year’s answer to this same question from the daily prompt in my post called Meat Me and I see my opinion hasn’t changed.
I love all food, and I always ate what I wanted and how much I wanted. Well, that dynamic got it into a situation where I was about 30-40 lbs. overweight. I got that under control about 2 years ago if my memory is working this morning.
I lost that by adjusting the diet and cutting way back on sodas.
And I do something that many seem to recommend against. I weigh myself daily. I do it for the following reasons. It helps me keep focused and not get out of line to where I just let myself go. It’s like steering a car. Just keeping in my lane.
I don’t beat myself up if I gain a few pounds or get lower than what I think might be good. I try to keep a target weight of about 175 +- 5lbs. I make allowances for special events and holidays. For instance, this past weekend. And I just got on the scale and it’s showing 181. So, I’ll back off for a few days slowly and be right back in step.
Now that I have a pretty good record I have to start eating the right things more. I still snack to much on the wrong things. I’ve got to get more fruit and veggies. But there is no way I’m going to deny myself some treats once in a while or go vegan.
Of course, it’s smart to fit some exercise into the routine also. Exercise is what allowed me to eat whatever I wanted and as much as I wanted for decades. That all changed as my lifestyle did.
I admit it was nice going 4-5 decades and not giving food or drink a second thought. Now it’s just part of my daily routine to think about it because there are penalties for not thinking.
Be smart so you can take your son or daughter fishing.
I think I shot this at Rocky Gorge. Photo by Mike Hartley
Damn, another week down. And how do I know that. I have to refill the daily pill container. I started off the week real strong, but haven’t finished that way. But overall progress in fixing a few problems, making progress on my photo site and blog, working on a painting and carving along with some chores around the house.
I’ve done more reading than usual, watched more educational things than entertainment and as I look around the office I’ve decluttered some.
Could I have done more, yep, no question. But sitting here early on a Sunday morning I feel good about the week behind me and the chance to finish strong today.
Even though I’m not heading to the job tomorrow I still like looking at a week by week accomplishment review. I guess it’s engrained in me. I used to do nightly reports of events and a nightly report to the manager/director of my tasks/progress and weekly turnover reports to the next shifts and management for decades.
I consider a week a huge amount of time, but they go by in the flash of an eye. Things come off the to do list and things go on the to do list. Weeks we get to see our children/grandchildren are special. Weeks we don’t, we miss them and it seems like a period much longer than a week.
Weeks are no longer broken down into the workweek and weekend. They are one continuous thing. And that is nice. Especially when they are peppered with days without obligations or plans.
I’m getting better at looking at each day as at least a partial success. Finding small milestones to keep me inspired. I might hit a milestone later today, if I finish this book.
Random Thoughts of the Day
Watched sun break the horizon over the Atlantic and then peek behind the clouds and create a great orange with bluish grey clouds, with orange and yellow highlights. Each one is so unique. Except the rainy ones.
Strength through adversity. Or is it strength from adversity? Or both?
If I see snow this morning I’m going to cry foul. It’s still November. Update, we have sleet.
Getting some Xmas lights hung always puts me in good spirits. I might even pull the artificial tree out and assemble that. The real one will come next weekend. Don’t you just love the smell of a real tree.
There is a smile behind that morning greeting. Feeling better than earlier and ready to work on hobbies. Was doing some editing/housekeeping and found an old image I hadn’t used before. This one of the Chesapeake Bay Bridge, one of my favorite bridges, but also intimidating.
An engineering marvel. Photo by Mike Hartley
Usually, I don’t get much sticking that old digital camera out the window. But occasionally an accident happens like above.
I don’t dare do that now. With age came discomfort crossing it. So somewhere in the last decade I began losing some of my nerve, I guess.
Oh, I still cross it without issue, it’s just that I’m much more conscious of it now in terms of it being more of a tense ride than in my youth. I’ve ridden across it in storms, (hail dented the car once at the top of the bridge), in winds, in the dark, in fog, at sunrise and sunset. On beautiful days watching ships go up and down the bay.
I’ve just lost that total inhibition I guess and now watching out for idiots around me instead of taking a peek at the wonderful views. I’ve also been getting a little more uncomfortable with heights than I used to be.
One of the things I was kind of interested in doing for years was the Bay Bridge Walk/Run. I always thought I could do that. Now I’m like that wouldn’t be comfortable. As a photographer I should suck it up and do it but it’s going to have to be really good weather.
This year was cancelled and there is no date for next year on the website yet. Wish it was done in warmer weather.
What technology would you be better off without, and why? – An interesting question from the daily writing prompt.
I answered the same question last year in a post called Technology and listed several items that we would be better without like Military and weapon tech, games, AI and smartphones.
So, I’ll update that post with my new information and personal bias gained over this year.
Technology has changed life so quickly, mostly for the better for everyone. At the same time, it’s made life where it could be tough to survive if it goes down. Assuming power could be restored but no internet. How would you get information. There are a few ham radio operators still around. Printing presses are almost extinct.
How would you get money, gas and food? Think of the panic you see in people if they misplace their phone or cable goes out.
I know technology was around when I was born in the 50s. But things for the most part were manual and mechanical. I didn’t grow up with an air-conditioned home. I think that is why heat doesn’t bother me today and that I enjoy summer.
There were phones but they didn’t move. How many people still have LAN lines available?
The first mower I used didn’t even have a motor. I was the energy. Could anyone fix a car without technology? Of course, fixing it would be irrelevant because computers control the gas stations. They used to be manual.
I’m thankful I grew up in a time when technology didn’t dominate life. That tech wasn’t so intertwined with so many activities. Would people know how to have fun without technology.
I modified last year’s opinion on tech. Technology isn’t bad despite how we use it, at times. Wonderful things and advances for all have come from it. It’s that we have become so reliant on it to such a deep degree. And at the same time ignore all consequences and march forward at warp speed.
The prepping thing wasn’t one of my callings so I’m just as vulnerable as most, but I do have a few skills, being older. I know how to swing an axe/maul and make a fire.
I ran across my old boy scout cook kit a while back, and quickly thought, I don’t need this but then I said. Keep it for a rainy day. I’m thinking more like that now. Be a little more prepared.
Imagine no tech and having to talk to one another face to face.
I found a shoot from Baltimore from a decade ago in August of 2015. I passed over several acceptable images that I hadn’t used before and thought I’d share today.
The National Katyn Memorial at the circle of President Street, Aliceanna Street and International Drive in Baltimore Maryland.
Pier 6 Pavilion and Baltimore skyline in background.
The Inner Harbor area. About to be redeveloped again.
Old and New.
Great ships, big and small, modern and old travel our waterways.
Steel from the Twin Towers.
All shapes and sizes in town.
Submarine, Tug and Sail. With the National Aquarium in the background.
Yesterday we were with family but away from home. When I returned the couch, was the winner over the computer. I guess I’ll squeak in under the window again here. Apologies for the lateness. Second apology, I didn’t get any fresh doors, and I had to raid the archive. I’ve got some ideas for next week, so I’ll have something new.
Come join in the fun of Thursday Doors. The link to our host Dan’s Site – No Facilities to see many more talented displays of grand entrances. Have a great week all. And as always thank you Dan.
An old home on the Eastern Shore of Maryland.
I believe I shot this flowery entrance in Frederick Maryland.
The Jefferson Hotel in Washington DC at night. It was on my walk around the building around 1am. Usually I ate at my desk and then took a short walk around DC at night.
I believe this entrance is in Old Ellicott City MD.
It’s going to be the coldest it has been in a long time today. I’m going to hibernate inside and listen to that wind howl outside and not feel it. I think I’ll make it rather tropical here today.
Photo by Mike Hartley
It’s nice and toasty here already. I had the space heater on for a few minutes to take the chill out of my office and now I’m in better spirits already.
Standing outside was so crisp and clear out for the few minutes I could tolerate it. Barely a breeze earlier around sunrise, but strong gusts are coming they say. Think I’ll go get the cover off the car before trying to do that in the wind later.
Hope everyone was able to have a nice feast yesterday. I’m guessing the word of the day is leftovers. My son hosted yesterday, and it was a wonderful gathering. A relaxed one and they did a great job with the food.
Soon to be filled with food again. Photo by Mike Hartley
We will all belly up again in less than a month and maybe have a few more at Christmas time which is now a very short time away. Despite that I’ll skip shopping this weekend.
My better half and I have an unexpected free weekend. She is cooking a turkey today, we had ham yesterday. Lots of leftover stuffing to devour which is no problem for me. They don’t call this Feast Week for nothing.
The daily writing prompt asks – What’s the hardest decision you’ve ever had to make and why?
Wow, the first few I thought of are very personal and I don’t care to share them here. But another very hard decision that has come about a few times is when your pets time has come. Deciding that is horrible if you are faced with it.
I’ve made the decision twice to have pets put down. I made those decisions out of compassion to end suffering. I’ve also had a few that I let go naturally. Either way is very difficult. Pets become family members so it’s an extremely personal thing. Sometimes though I believe we are more compassionate with pets than we are with people.
Pick up the phone and call a loved one or friend today, that can’t be with you. Don’t forget those with empty plates. Be safe, have a great day. I have sports to watch, grandchildren to play with, food to eat and family to hug.
Happy Thanksgiving all. The daily writing prompt asks a holiday type question – Do you or your family make any special dishes for the holidays?
We stick to the traditional dishes for the most part. My better half makes stuffing that the family lives for. Every part of the meal I love.
My special dish is memories. Don’t take for granted that members of your family and friends that gather during the holidays will be there next time. Savor the time together, put small differences aside. Find out something about them you didn’t know.
I love creating new memories but I do love the old ones on the holidays. They can bring a smile and a tear at the same time. Thoughts drift back to our parent’s homes at Thanksgiving. The memories of your siblings as a youth, maybe playing in the yard, watching football or seeing how many raids you can get away with in the kitchen sampling things before dinner.
And then as adults their smiles as you would come back home for the holiday. Those smells would hit you at the door that took you back a few years and felt like moms embrace, when you were 10 years old.
Time flies, and then both you and their grandchildren are knocking on their doors, and you see your parents smiles bigger than you ever got and you become invisible for a few seconds because they fixate on the little ones. And you smile with happiness as they give you a quick kiss and hug.
And if you’re lucky the great grandchildren are also running around. You see all your siblings and their kids, and everyone is together. And then not. Parents pass, families start to have their own celebrations with a few exceptions. Siblings move away or don’t care to participate in a family style gathering.
The family spits into separate units, loosely connected at times or not at all. I’m trying to get back to that old time with my family. We the older parents now, our children and grandchildren for holidays. And if we are lucky one day way down the road, some great grandchildren.
I’m thankful again for another year and that is a wonderful dish I hope to keep getting served.
Leg, check, wing, check, breast, check. EAT. Photo by Mike Hartley
Given the warm temps some bikes are out today but you won’t see any leaves on the trees like this. Winter is here and there are rumors of snow in early December.
Some days I miss my bike. I miss the experience. But better to leave it alone now than chance it. No offense to those who ride. I’m looking out for you. Can’t speak for the rest of them.
My better half said the roads are nuts. I don’t plan on being out much at all this weekend. For those of you braving the highways, take your time and be safe.
Random Thoughts of the Day
If I pretended, I was under more pressure I might get more done. But why pretend.
A constant dilemma, read more or write more. Shoot more, edit more.
Looks like it’s time to break out the heavy winter coat after today.
There are a few things I’d like to get framed. Haven’t done any of my work in frames in many years except as gifts. Time to change that.
Looking forward to a good Monday. Think I’ll get a haircut. That always makes me feel good. I was a bit lazy creating new work this weekend, but I did get a lot accomplished in terms of some fixes, housekeeping and organizing.
It’s a huge sports week and I’ll enjoy some of those events. The first one is the Maryland game that starts at midnight tonight. Yeah, they play the late game out west.
A great sky today. Photo by Mike Hartley
This is going to be a great week. Just made some plans to see a show we’ve wanted to do for some time now. The ICE Show at the Gaylord Hotel.
Working on some other travel ideas for next year and making plans with my better half. Those river cruises are sounding attractive.
I’m a bit of a homebody though. I better snap out of that shell before I can’t travel.
Random Thoughts of the Day
I see Giving Tuesday is a week from tomorrow December 2nd. I think I’ll start a week early with a donation to the food bank to catch the Thanksgiving need.
I wonder if Vegas takes bets on the lawsuits Trump brings.
The founder of Pappas Restaurant passed. They have my vote for best crabcake.
Naps are cool. If they aren’t your sleep.
RFK Jr. is going to be responsible for people dying needlessly.
Who are your current most favorite people? – There is a question loaded with landmines. The thought of leaving someone out hangs over this reply. So, I’ll go with this answer.
The people that keep in touch with me. The people that tell me they love me or I’m a good friend. The people on the street I don’t know, that give me a smile. The people that hold a door for me or let me merge on the road.
The people fighting hard, for my rights and freedom. The people that keep me informed with truth and facts. The people that encourage me and are honest with me. The people that take care of my health.
The people that brought me into the world. The people that run up to me and say, “Lets Play Papa.”
I think that about covers it but I still have that feeling I’m leaving people out.
Don’t be alone, find your people. Photo by Mike Hartley
Drop the flag, we are off to the races. I’m feeling good about yesterday’s progress and excited about the possibilities of today.
A rather patriotic checkered flag. Photo by Mike Hartley
I’m watching a beautiful sunrise over the Atlantic this morning, from afar unfortunately. Do you ever wonder how many more you will see?
It’s going to be nice for a late November day here so I’m going to fire up the grill later and put some chicken on it. I’m excited about that because I haven’t grilled out in a while. Being it will be around dark I’ll get the firepit going for a few hours before the late football game.
But first I’m looking forward to getting out and catching some rays from the sun with the top down on the car. And hopefully grabbing a few new images while out and about.
I’m guessing a good number of you might be traveling this coming holiday. Be it by car, plane or a walk across the street, have a safe and wonderful trip. I know some of you are getting an early start.
This drop top has more room than mine. Photo by Mike Hartley
We haven’t been big travelers in the past but hope to do some now that the time is available. I’m not sure why but I love the idea of taking trains to places in this country. I’ve had very few train rides in my life, but all have been great. A few trips north to Philly, NYC and Rochester are all I can remember.
We’re going to do a few local things before the end of the year that are just short drives but next year we might be rolling more.
I don’t think I’ll ever be comfortable flying, but I’ll do it because it’s the only way to get to some places the better half would like to visit. So, to the air we will take.
Tomorrow I’m keeping my feet on the ground with a joy ride because it might be the last sunny day that isn’t too cold before the long winter sets in.
A wet and dreary morning in central Maryland. It wasn’t bothering this guy below grazing in my back yard. The sun did break out at noon to brighten my spirits.
Seen a lot more bucks roaming my area lately. Photo by Mike Hartley
Spent the morning doing security updates due to a data breach at my old company, thank you very much for another parting gift. A company that keeps on giving, our information away.
All I know is that when we had a good number of database engineers all assigned to their systems and infrastructure teams above that made data, hardware, operating systems, networks and backups all secure, when I worked there. I think the applicable phrase is “Not on our watch.”
Secure it. Photo by Mike Hartley
I was disappointed by my new Dell laptop this morning. The first bios update it gets and it’s frozen. I retired from working with computer a while back and I don’t want to spend my time working on them now. Previous models have been very solid.
I’m tired of technology letting me down. It’s been that way from the start. The damn IBM 8086 and 8088. The crappy Mac Plus and Mac II. And everything in between, to today’s suspect engineering. Yeah, I’m old and probably don’t give credit to the level of today’s technology but I see and hear the same number of people complaining. Not to mention increasing threats from hackers, frauds, scams, thefts and other nefarious threats.
After getting Dell Support, I’m back in business with the laptop. Their engineer was pretty good, and it wasn’t a huge time drain getting it operational again. Being out of the IT game for a while I’m smart enough to seek help when I don’t know.
I’ve got to look at some external online attached storage for next year. I also realized my best camera is 13 years old. At the least it needs a good cleaning. The new equipment is so expensive. Then again, it’s not the equipment pointing the camera.
Time to get outside and get some new images, the camera is fully charged, and I will be soon.
